Vincent Grammar - How To Develop The Fighting Mindset
In A Real Street Fight, Most Of What You’ve Learned From Your Local Dojos, Or Strip Mall Karate Schools, Will Get You Killed.
Hi, I’m Vincent Grammar, a former weakling softy and wimp. I looked big and strong, but mentally I lacked the confidence and tough guy mindset. What I’ve told you above is the absolute truth. All the fighting styles and techniques you have learned from these so call martial arts schools are nothing more than just a gym class. You get the regular exercise for promoting your health and their goal is to take your monthly class payments. Most of them never teach you how to defend yourself in a REAL fight with full speed and power. Legal rulings prohibit instructors to physically harm a student. Now I’m not saying everyone of these schools are bad. Some places are hardcore fighting schools, but I have no way of telling you which ones are the real deal since I’m not from your area.
Most of the things you’ve learned from your dojos speak about peace above all and avoiding all fights and confrontations because they are just not worth it. Instructors give you the “Violence is not the answer… ” speech before even supposedly train you to fight. That was my mindset before I discover the real truth in fighting. If you look and act like a tough guy, sooner or later someone is going to challenge you to a fight. If you don’t like fighting, then don’t even try to act like a tough guy or pretend you know MMA or whatever. In my case of having a fighter’s physical attributes, people on the streets are always testing me, sometimes I simply can’t avoid every challenges. If you keep running away from your fear, then why even learn to fight in the first place? Your friends will think you are just a poser, all looks and no show.
I remember my first violent fight at the club… it got me a first class ticket straight to the hospital, I didn’t even last a full 30 seconds during the fight. My girlfriend and friends witnessed me getting hammered to the ground by a much smaller Asian dude. Sure, I said that I was drunk and the Asian got lucky on me. But anyways, that was probably the most embarrassing moment in my life. Thinking about peace was the last thing on my mind then while laying in the hospital bed. I had to become a better fighter to better protect myself and my love ones.
During a real fight while thinking about peace and pussying (excuse my language) away from a fight will only confuse yourself. You need to develop a true fighters mindset. A killer fighting instinct, like someone that grew up brawling in the streets of new york would have. There is no mercy and no other option, but to take your opponent down or it’s your life that he will take.
With the right kind of fighting mindset, you will have the ultimate confidence during any situation and will never fear another fight again. Dominate your opponent in the ring or in the streets, no matter how big, strong, or highly skilled they are.
Become more deadly than a canon blast to the face!
I must warn you that. If you never fought or never plan to fight, and totally believe in peace above all else. Please never ever go to bars, clubs, and social places that serve alcohol. Sooner or later you will encounter messy violence scenes and you may be a victim.
